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My son is getting distant from me after his marriage. As a mother, I feel quite sad

Question: My son (age 32) is getting distant from me after his marriage. As a mother, I feel quite sad. He does not even talk to me. What to do?

Answer: I understand how much it must be hurting to feel distant from your son after his marriage. It’s a tough situation for any parent to deal with. It’s important to give your son some space to adjust to his new life with his partner, but that doesn’t mean you have to completely lose touch with him. Reach out to him occasionally, but try not to be too pushy or overbearing. Ask him how he’s doing, and if he wants to talk about anything. You could also suggest doing activities together that he used to enjoy when he was younger. It’s possible that he’s just busy with his new life, but it’s important for him to know that you still care about him and are there for him whenever he needs you. Remember to be patient and keep an open mind, as it may take time for things to improve.

Here are some more tips on how to improve your relationship with your son after his marriage:

  • Be respectful of his boundaries: Your son may need some space to adjust to his new life with his partner. Respect his boundaries and try not to be too pushy or intrusive. Let him know that you’re there for him whenever he needs you, but that you also understand if he needs some time to himself.
  • Show interest in his life: Ask your son about his life and how he’s doing. Show genuine interest in what he has to say, and try to be supportive of his choices. Avoid being critical or judgmental, as this can put a strain on your relationship.
  • Find common interests: Look for activities that you and your son can do together, such as watching a movie or going for a walk. Try to find common interests that you both enjoy, and use these as opportunities to bond and reconnect.
  • Respect his new family: Your son’s partner and their family are now an important part of his life. Try to be respectful of them, and avoid saying or doing anything that could cause conflict or tension. Building a good relationship with your son’s new family can help to strengthen your relationship with him.
  • Keep communication open: Make an effort to keep in touch with your son regularly. It doesn’t have to be every day, but try to check in with him once in a while to see how he’s doing. You could send him a message or give him a call, or even send a care package if you’re far away.

Remember, building a strong relationship with your adult child after their marriage is a process that takes time and effort from both sides. Be patient, and keep working on your relationship with your son.

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