I often get this feling of revenge against my ex
Question: I often get this feling of revenge against my ex. How do I handle myself during these times?
Answer: Feeling a desire for revenge against an ex can be a normal response to the end of a relationship, but it’s important to recognize that acting on these feelings can be harmful to both yourself and others. Here are some steps you can take to handle yourself during these times:
- Recognize the emotion: Acknowledge that you are feeling a desire for revenge, and allow yourself to experience the emotion without acting on it. Recognize that these feelings are a normal part of the healing process and that they will pass with time.
- Practice self-care: Take care of yourself by engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. This can include exercise, hobbies, spending time with friends and family, or pursuing personal goals.
- Focus on forgiveness: Consider focusing on forgiveness as a way to move forward from the relationship. This may involve forgiving your ex, as well as yourself for any mistakes you may have made during the relationship.
- Seek support: Talk to trusted friends, family members, or a therapist about your feelings. They can offer support and guidance to help you process your emotions and move forward in a healthy way.
- Reframe your thoughts: Reframe your thoughts from revenge to personal growth. Instead of focusing on getting revenge, focus on becoming a better person and growing from the experience.
Remember that healing from a breakup takes time, and it’s important to be patient with yourself. By taking proactive steps to handle yourself during times of revenge, you can move forward in a healthy and positive way.
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